
LEARN ABOUT
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE & ABUSE
WHAT IS DOMESTIC ABUSE?
*** Trigger Warning ***
Domestic Violence & Abuse can be physical, sexual, psychological or financial abuse that takes place within an intimate or family-type relationship and that forms a pattern of coercive and controlling behaviour, including FGM, forced marriage and so-called ‘honour crimes’.
Domestic Abuse is very common and, in the vast majority of cases, it is experienced by women and perpetrated by men. It can be carried out by a partner, ex-partner, family member or carer. It is experienced by women from all backgrounds.
NEED HELP NOW?
Are you in immediate danger? Call 999. For free information and support, call our 24hr Helpline on 01296 437777.
HOW TO RECOGNISE
DOMESTIC ABUSE
Domestic Abuse may include a range of abusive behaviours, not all of which are inherently ‘violent’.
HOW TO RECOGNISE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
WHAT ARE MY RIGHTS
Domestic abuse is a crime. You have certain rights according to the law which are designed to protect you from harm perpetrated by an abuser.
Legal Help
- Your Rights: Domestic abuse is a crime. You can call the police or use ‘civil’ laws to protect yourself without involving the police.
- Emergency: Always call 999 in an emergency.
- Legal Advice: Call us on 01296 437 777 for signposting for legal consultation.
- How we help:
- Getting protection orders (injunctions).
- Signposting for Legal Aid.
- Signposting for advice with immigration or family law (child contact).
- Help with “Clare’s Law” to check if a partner has a violent past.
- NRPF (No recourse to public funds) – eligible for support with civil orders only
Child Protection
It is common for abusers to use children and child contact as a method of control. They might try to turn your children against you, or make threats to hurt them or take them away from you. This can continue long after a woman has left her partner. This is called post separation abuse.
We can give you support and signpost you for advice around family law, including child contact issues. Please call us on our Helpline 01296 437 777.
For more information about how we can help support children and young people visit the Children and Young Peoples Services page.
Financial rights and government benefits
What is financial abuse?
Financial abuse is when a partner controls your money. This includes:
- Stopping you from working or accessing your own bank account.
- Spending your money or taking out debts in your name without your permission.
- Refusing to pay child maintenance.
If this is happening to you, talk to us. We can help.
Getting Financial Support
The government provides benefits to help survivors of abuse. Depending on your situation, you may be able to claim:
- Universal Credit
- Child Benefit or Child Tax Credit
- Housing Benefit
- Jobseeker’s Allowance
Because everyone’s situation is different, visit your local Citizens Advice Centre for personal guidance.
What to take with you
If you are planning to leave your home, try to take identification (ID) documents with you. You will need these to apply for benefits.
You will also need a National Insurance Number. If you do not have one, we can help you apply for it.
